Category: Anecdotes

  • Reclaiming my body pt.1 : Instagram

    Reclaiming my body pt.1 : Instagram

    Over the past few weeks, I’ve been grappling with a realization: no one cares what I post on Instagram. No one cares because I’m neither a renowned artist nor a talentless influencer hawking overly edited images of their “fascinating life.” And if no one cares about what I post, especially on a platform that feeds…

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  • Happiness Project: Setting boundaries or letting go

    Happiness Project: Setting boundaries or letting go

    This particular commandment is especially difficult because I constantly struggle with it across most, if not all, of my relationships. When I was younger, it manifested itself mainly in romantic situations, but now, not being able to let go has become deeply entrenched in me. By “letting go,” I don’t mean that I’m a toxic…

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  • Objective: Happiness

    Objective: Happiness

    Before I launch into this, I want to share a disclaimer. I am part of that less than 20% to be fortunate enough to work from home. Really, to have a job, and to remain safe while doing it. Because I have this basic and vital security, I am safely able to divert my attention…

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  • I miss you.

    I miss you.

    In August, I lost a very close childhood friend. And even though I believed writing about her would be impossible, I have finally mustered up the strength to able to explain what grief feels like. The day I received the news, I was walking around the neighborhood with my mom— as we have habitually been…

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